Reclaiming Self Articles
Why Narcissists Feel the Need to Lie and Manipulate: The Depths of Their Inability to Be Genuine
Understanding narcissism often feels like trying to grasp a moving target—complex, elusive, and deeply rooted in psychological patterns. One of the most perplexing aspects of narcissistic behavior is their relentless inclination to lie, deceive, and manipulate others....
Understanding the “Flying Monkey”: How Narcissists Manipulate and Control Through Their Enablers
In the complex world of narcissistic relationships, the term "flying monkey" has gained prominence, yet many still wonder—what exactly is a flying monkey? How do narcissists manipulate these individuals, and why are they often eager to please the narcissist? Exploring...
Understanding why narcissistic abuse is not personal
Understanding why narcissistic abuse is not personal and why it's unwise to derive a sense of identity from it involves exploring the nature of narcissism and the dynamics of abusive relationships. Here are key points to consider: 1. Nature of Narcissism Inward...
Believing that one is worthless is illogical
Believing that one is worthless is illogical for several reasons, both psychological and philosophical. Here are some key points to consider: 1. Inherent Human Value Intrinsic Worth: Every individual has inherent value simply by being human. This value is not...
When a narcissist uses tactics like consistently calling someone a “loser” and instilling toxic shame
When a narcissist uses tactics like consistently calling someone a "loser" and instilling toxic shame, they are often trying to achieve several specific goals: 1. Establishing Dominance and Control Power Dynamics: By belittling the victim, the narcissist...
What’s Really Happening When Narcissists & Enablers Call You a “Loser”
When a narcissist and their enablers repeatedly try to demean, belittle, and label you as a "loser," it’s not about you—it’s about their own desperate need for control and superiority. Here’s the psychological breakdown of...
How to Handle Narcissists & Enablers Who Try to Define You
When a narcissist and their enablers attempt to label, smear, or "box" you into a negative identity, their goal is simple: to control the narrative so you doubt yourself and stay trapped in their drama. Here’s how to shut it down without...
How the Narcissist’s Own Behavior Exposes Them
Narcissists are their own worst enemies. Their obsessive, irrational, and self-destructive behaviors reveal their true nature—not as powerful manipulators, but as terrified, emotionally stunted individuals who can’t function without control. Here’s...
How the Narcissist’s Destruction Plan Backfires (And Sets You Free)
The narcissist’s greatest fear is being exposed as powerless—yet their own tactics often accelerate their downfall while propelling you toward freedom. Here’s how their "destroy the target" mission ultimately implodes: 1. Their Rage Reveals Their...
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